Bonus Levels
Living life after a glimpse of death is not easy. And I should probably be dead. But since I'm not, I'm choosing to live alive rather than questioning why. This is the story of that journey...
Tuesday, October 25, 2016
The Tide
The thoughts they swirl inside my head.
Not again, not again, not again...
In and out, I coach myself,
Just let your breath flow free -
But the release catches short,
And the tears clench within me.
... not again, not again, not again.
The tide is rises and it falls,
Carrying my hearts with its waves -
The shore ahead looks brash,
And I fear the crash will break -
Not again, not again, not again.
In and out, I remind myself,
Just let your breath flow free -
And as the waves begin to crest,
I surrender and find rest.
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Now I'm floating out to sea,
Unscathed and happy as can be.
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Fear
What is fear? And how is it holding you back?
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Recently, Aortic Hope hosted a Virtual Support Group featuring a Live Q&A session with Dr. Crawford from the University of Maryland Medical Center. The session focused on post procedure/surgery care.
What I noticed, as I was monitoring content behind the scenes, was that more than one fear based questions arose. Now, I can only comment on these specific questions because I have lived them myself and I have asked them myself.
Which is why I feel called to bring this topic up of fear.
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So... what is fear?
According to Google, fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.
If you're reading this, I'm going to go ahead and assume that at some point in your life, you have experienced fear. You may be feeling it right now. In my world, that is extremely common.
However, the key - the secret, if you will - to not only conquering your fears, but preventing them altogether is where I'd like to steer this conversation.
So, we all know that fear is an unpleasant emotion. But how is it holding you back?
Fear cannot live in a loving environment. The more you learn to love yourself, the less that fear can live inside of you. The more in tune you are with yourself, the more your body is going to begin instantly making you aware of your needs moment by moment. Now, does this mean that fear will not arise? Of course not. However, what it means is that you become bigger than the fear. You take back the control.
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"Love yourself fiercely, for fear cannot enter."
Sunday, February 21, 2016
Today is a good day.
So, you can either take this day, and allow it's overwhelming burdens to weigh you down, or you can find the good in it. Personally, I need to stop getting so caught up in the details. I worry and stress unnecessarily because I crave this un-perfectable perfection that doesn't truly exist. What does exist is this very moment, this very breath, this very special moment of existence. It may be un-perfectly perfect, but that is ok.
Saturday, June 13, 2015
The Story
Stomach ache
Panic attacks
Mood swings
Hair loss
Weight loss
Hearing loss
Vision loss
Confusion
Paranoia
Swollen lymph nodes
Sore throat
Cough
Runny nose
Rash
Back pain
Neck pain
Light headedness
Social anxiety
General anxiety
Suicidal thoughts
Loss of appetite
Chest pain
Rapid pulse
Night terrors
Dizziness
Fainting
Trembling
Impending doom
And this... is merely the prologue.
Thursday, June 11, 2015
Bonus Levels
Thursday, February 12, 2015
Be careful what you wish for.
I was always the tough one.
The middle child. The athlete. The tom-boy. The "anything you can do I can do better" one. Even when I felt inadequate, or weak, or vulnerable I never let it show. How could I? I had a reputation to live up to.
I was a Greenlee.
The daughter of the fire chief, the speed skating coach, the Sunday school teacher, the Girl Scout leader. The sister of a valedictorian, a speed skating champion, a partier, a star baseball player, a paramedic, a dancer.
I had to keep up. I had to do it all.
And I had to do it better.
They were tough. But I was tougher. It never felt like competition... it was just all I knew.
So I did everything.
I fought fires, I won speed skating nationals, I memorized Bible verses, I hiked, I got A's, I excelled in sports, I danced.
But I didn't stop there, I couldn't stop there.
I didn't just dance, I sang and acted. I didn't just excel in sports, I picked up rugby and sky diving. I didn't just party, I threw the parties. My family loves to travel... so I became the mover.
I not only did everything... I did everything better.
Until my life came to a sudden, unexplainable, un-"toppable" hault.
And the only question that remains after all these years is "why me?" The supposedly genetic disorder affected no one else in my family. Just me. The tough one. The middle child. The athlete. The tom boy. The "anything you can do I can do better" one.
The un-"toppable" open heart surgery survivor.
I guess I got what I always wanted.
Friday, January 9, 2015
The thump.
The problem with having such an in tune heart is that you feel every emotion so much more intensely. The good thing about having such an in tune heart is that you are privileged to feel so strongly.
I know that statement won't make sense to a lot of people, but open heart changes you. For so long I feared the constant heart beat... wait. Let me explain. I can feel it. Like... it. My heart. Every single beat. I feel it pumping blood through every single vein. I hear it's pounding even in my head. I can feel every thump it makes. Every thump. It's gotten more quiet, or maybe I've grown more accustomed to it. But it's always there. Reminding me that it has been in someone's hands. Literally pumped back to life. By someone's hands. It still amazes me. Maybe I'm being a bit dramatic. Yes. I'm being dramatic.
Back to the point. What was the point? Hands. Pumping. Hearts. Emotions. Ah, yes, emotions. I hate them. Or maybe I love them. I don't know.
The point is that I got really good at quieting them. Emotions, that is. But the problem remains that I cannot quiet the thump. But perhaps it isn't a problem after all. Perhaps, through all of my attempts in quieting my emotions, I neglected my heart so that it could decide on it's own. Decide what was worthy of the thump. Because it tugs at me in this strange way, as if it's saying... "... go on... thump... allow your heart to be pumped back to life." And, I mean, I tried to quiet it... and i tried to ignore it. But thump. It's still there. And the problem with having such an in tune heart is that... no. I shouldn't talk in circles. The good thing about having such an in tune heart is that... yes. You are privileged to feel so strongly. Privileged. Because I couldn't feel... I wouldn't feel... I shouldn't feel what I do. If it wasn't real.
I don't know what I was thinking. Sorry heart. Thump on.